Is Requiring “Follows” or “Likes” to Enter a Contest a Good Idea?

I’ve recently developed a new pet peeve. Blogs that host drawings and require entrants to either “follow” the blog or “like” the Facebook page in order to enter. If the blog is interesting to me, it’s not a big deal. If it’s not a blog that interests me, I do one of two things:
If it’s a low-value prize, I click out and move on.
If it’s something like a $25+ gift card to Amazon (or a Kindle!), I’ll go ahead and follow, but I’ll probably never go back to read the blog. And hiding pages on my Facebook newsfeed works really well.

I have two goals for my book giveaways. 1) Get rid of the books that are accumulating in the corner of the room, and 2) bring more readers to my blog. Readers, not just followers. I would rather grow my blog slowly (or top out somewhere below one million followers if necessary) than have 10,000 Facebook fans, but only 1,000 readers. Numbers are great, and it’s awesome to see those numbers rise, but I’d rather have repeat visitors, and visitors who land here for one post and stick around to read one or two more.

That’s why following my blog or liking my Facebook page are not requirements for entering my drawings. Or subscribing to my RSS Feed, or posting the contest to your Facebook page. I think sometimes, the promotion aspect can go too far. Also, I can’t verify if someone has subscribed via RSS or posted on a private fb page. Since I can’t verify it, it doesn’t seem fair to my other readers to allow those as entries. I wonder if other some of these other bloggers have considered that?

I really would like some input on this one. Is it just me that finds this too pushy? If you enter blog drawings, do these requirements bother you at all? I’d like to hear from any bloggers who host drawings, as well. Do you think enough of the people who follow you because of drawings stick around, to make it worthwhile? I’m not trying to be mean. I’m really curious.

“Make It Mine” Monday – When God Created My Toes Book Giveaway *CLOSED*

When God Created My Toes (Dandilion Rhymes)Congratulations to last week’s winner, Diane B.! Diane won a copy of Memories of the Great Depression.

This week’s book is When God Created My Toes by Dandi Daley Mackall.  You can check out my review of the book here.

To enter, just leave a comment telling me your family’s favorite book to read together. Here we love anything with Winnie the Pooh… or dinosaurs (okay, that one’s not really a “we” as much as it’s a “the boys”).
Make sure to leave your email address in the comment or that your profile is linked to the comment so I have some way to contact you if you win.

You can also earn extra entries. Leave a separate comment for each entry. If you are already a follower, you can still enter. Just leave the verifying info noted below. (Entries must be comments made here on the blog, not on facebook.)

1. “Like” my blog on Facebook. Leave your first name and last initial(s) in the comment.
2. Follow on NetworkedBlogs. Leave your first name and last initial(s) in the comment.
3. Follow on Google Friend Connect. Leave your gfc name.
4. Follow on Twitter. Leave your Twitter name.
5. Tweet about the giveaway. You can do this once each day. Leave your Twitter name in the comment.

Don’t forget to make sure I have a way to contact you.

It won’t count as an entry, but don’t forget to vote for the book you want to see in next week’s giveaway! You can vote for more than one book.

Entry will close at noon EDT Friday, July22, 2011. Winner will be chosen byhttp://www.randomizer.org/. Winner will be notified on Friday and will have until 10 AM EDT Monday, July 25, 2011 to claim the book. Winner will be announced on Monday afternoon along with a new giveaway. For more information, see the “Make It Mine Monday” page. Sorry, US only.

Deja Vu Again (And Again)

You know how kids will find something they like the sound of, and say it over and over until everyone is sick of hearing it? (Please tell me it’s not just my kids that do that.) Well, Bennett heard Jeffrey say, “Deja vu,” one day. Jeffrey knows what it means. Bennett doesn’t. Nor does he care. It’s become his default phrase. If you say something he doesn’t like (like “Don’t hit your brother.”), or something he doesn’t understand, or if he’s embarrassed, or if he just thinks he needs something to say, he says, “Deja vu.” Except that he can’t really pronounce it correctly, so it’s more like, “Debah boo.”

He’s gotten back into Blue’s Clues recently, so he’s been “skidoo-ing” all over the house.

He also loves Toy Story (except the parts in the first one with that future serial killer, Sid), but can’t get him to stop calling them all “Toy Story 3”. Makes it a little hard to figure out which one he wants to watch.

He’s still working on finding the correct word for things. You know how little ones mix stuff up. (And I know that’s not just my kids.) He was trotting around the house one day with his little flashlight. When I asked what he was doing, he told me, “I’m finding for my ball.”

Something just occurred to me this week. When Bennett was in speech therapy last year, his therapist said something about him having trouble connecting words to objects. Like there was a bridge missing or something. I can’t remember the details, although I probably put it in an email to someone at some point and could possibly look it up if it were crucial information. I don’t believe it is. I do wonder, though, if that might have something to do with him saying, “What it called?” all the time. He doesn’t just do it with things he’s unfamiliar with. He will mention something, then in the next sentence say, “What it called?” when trying to continue the conversation.

He still thinks batteries are the answer to everything. Netflix (or our internet) was being flaky this afternoon, and Bennett told us, “The TV needs new batteries.”

Here Burns My Candle by Liz Curtis Higgs – Book Review

Here Burns My Candle is the first of a two-novel series, an updated version of the Biblical story of Naomi and Ruth. Not completely updated; the story takes place during the Jacobite Rebellion of 1745. If you know me, you know I love historical fiction, so I did enjoy book. Knowing how the Rebellion ended, though, did put a bit of a damper on the story, as well as the fact that I’d already read the teaser for the second book. Combining those two factors meant that I knew how the book would end; I just didn’t know the details that would get us there.
Here Burns My Candle: A Novel

I also didn’t like most of the main characters, which made it hard to trudge through at first. The writing is great, and the pacing is fine. It was just that I wanted to get to the stuff I didn’t already know. Once I got about halfway (or thereabouts) through, I just wanted to know how things were going to unfold. That sounds like the definition of a good book to me: one you want to keep reading even when you already know how it ends.

I liked watching Elisabeth discover God. At the same time, her mother-in-law is rediscovering God. It’s very sweet to watch their journey together. By the end of the book, I even liked the mother-in-law. She had become a completely different person.

Now I’m off to read the second book, Mine Is the Night, as soon as I can get my hands on it.

You can read an excerpt of Here Burns My Candle here.

Rank this review for a chance to win your own copy of Here Burns My Candle.

I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for this review.

Keeping a Princess Heart In a Not-So-Fairy-Tale World – Book Review

As little girls, we loved fairy tales. Once we reach big-girl status, we’ve either decided that fairy tales are entertaining, but ridiculous, or that there is a prince and a perfect life out there “somewhere” if we could just get past all the frogs. In Keeping a Princess Heart in a Not-So-Fairy-Tale World, Nicole Johnson tells us that fairy tales are essential. We are worthy of love and attention, and there is nothing wrong with believing that. We are daughters of the King, so we are Princesses.
Keeping a Princess Heart: In a Not-So-Fairy-Tale World

We just have to strike a balance between dreaming of castles in the sky and locking ourselves in the dungeon of a heart that has given up.  Johnson gives practical and Biblical advice on how to be satisfied and content with your life without giving up your dreams.

This review is part of my Women of Faith Author Series. Stay tuned for more reviews.

The 15-Minute Microwave Cake

On Tuesday, I mentioned that Bennett’s birthday celebration lasted six days, but if you were paying attention, Wednesday through Sunday is only five days. Um, oops? I didn’t miscount; I just forgot to mention that we celebrated on Monday with our homeschool group. I made a yummy cake to take to the pool with us and it only took a few minutes from start to finish.

This is a microwave cake, so you obviously need a *non-metal* pan. I use a Pampered Chef Stoneware Fluted Pan. This is the only pan I’ve ever used for this and the only one I’ve heard of being used, so if you want to try a different *non-metal* pan, you’re on your own. Let me know how it turns out. Make sure it’s a pan that will allow room for the cake to expand. It actually goes all the way to the top of the pan when cooking, although it shrinks a little after cooling. ( I keep emphasizing *non-metal* because I like my readers and I don’t want to lose any of you to an unfortunate fire. Or explosion. And I know how easy it is to have your mind on something else and not be thinking about what you’re doing. Ask me sometime about the stoneware bar pan I broke because I really wanted pie and ice cream.)

All you need is any box of cake mix (or the equivalent amount of homemade mix) and a container of frosting (or homemade equivalent). The cake mix can be gluten-free or any flavor or variety, except the super-moist or whatever it’s called. If you use that, the cake will be too moist and it will fall apart.

Follow the instructions for the cake mix and pour it into the Fluted Pan. Then take the frosting and put half of it into the pan, by scooping spoonfuls evenly spaced around the pan. I use a Pampered Chef scoop (like an ice cream scoop). It doesn’t have to be exactly half, so you don’t have to measure it, and the frosting doesn’t have to be distributed exactly. Just eyeball it.

However, do not use all the frosting at this point. It will make the cake too moist and when you flip it out of the pan, it will fall apart. Trust me. The cake I took to the pool on Monday was already in bite-size pieces. (Which is why there is no picture for this post.) That’s what I get for being in a hurry. As if this cake takes long anyway.

Put the pan in the microwave for 15 minutes. If you have a turntable, just set the timer and forget it. If not, you’ll need to turn the pan a 1/4 turn every 3-5 minutes. When it’s done, let it sit for about 10 minutes, then flip it out onto a plate or cake carrier. When you flip the cake, you’ll have an already-frosted cake. Melt the remaining frosting and pour it over the cake. Voila. Super-easy, super-fast, and super-yummy.

I Married Adventure by Luci Swindoll – Book Review

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”


I Married Adventure: Looking at Life Through the Lens of PossibilityJohn 10:10 is one of my favorite Bible verses. Obviously, it’s one of Luci Swindoll’s, as well. In I Married Adventure: Looking At Life Through the Lens of Possibility, she shares her delight in once-in-a-lifetime events, such as seeing leopards on an African safari. She also encourages us to enjoy every seemingly-mundane minute. Watching a bird in our own backyard can be just as wondrous as viewing exotic animals on another continent, as long as we have the right attitude. Every moment is a gift from God and He wants us to love and appreciate our lives for the time we have here. 


This review is part of my Women of Faith Author Series. Stay tuned for future reviews.